Guarded Optimism

Is guarded optimism an oxymoron?

Seems guarded and optimism should not be in the same sentence.

While I do understand the meaning behind the phrase, it seems a different set of words could be used. After all, optimism is "glass half full" and guarded often means "glass half empty." You are either one or the other, but not truly both.

You either believe something positive will happen or you think that a negative result is inevitable.

Deep down, most people have a "gut" feeling one way or the other, but to cover for not wanting to sound negative, the term "guarded optimism" is used.

If you start a new venture with guarded optimism, most likely you are destined to fail. You either go in with total belief or you don't do it. Your mind is a funny thing. The things you think about most often, will typically become your reality.

So when you think with total success and optimism, more often then not, you will be correct. On he flip side, when you half attempt something because you don't truly believe, failure is typically the result.

Curt Fletcher aka The Likeability Guy, is a Real Estate Professional, Business Development Strategist, Published Author of the book, "How To Sell More Homes and Increase Your Income," Sales Trainer, and Professional Speaker that focuses on improving your Likeability to increase your Opportunities for Success!