You do WHAT for a living?

I wonder if people enjoy being boring or if they feel they have to be boring to fit their roll...

In any given week, I get a handful of business cards handed to me. The first thing I like to do is look at the picture to see if it looks even marginally like the person that actually handed it to me.

Typically it doesn't, but that is another topic for another day.

The next thing I do is read the "Job Title."

This is where I get the most interested. 99% of the people I meet have a horribly boring job title. When I read it, I immediately have an image in my head of what that persons normal work day must consist of....and truth be told, it makes me very sleepy.

There are lots of discussions out there about spiffing up job title names for various reasons. I'm not interested in creating a title that over inflates what someone does, but certainly there are ways to make you sound more interesting.

I love handing someone a business card and watching their face.

I have a few different cards I use, but one of the has the title of "The Likeability Guy" with a job title of Likeability Expert. The typical response I get is the person looks down, scans the card, then they look at me, then they look down again with a slightly perplexed look with a quasi half grin and they say..."What does a Likeability Expert do?"

BAM! There is my perfect opening. The ultimate ice breaker. The mood is immediately lighter and they are asking me about what I do. I didn't have to just blurt anything out that they weren't interested in.

My job title creates enough interest to where it extends or promotes a new and exciting conversation.

Job titles like the following are boring and illicit no responses or interest from someone else:

• Operations Manager


• Vice President


• CEO


• General Manger


• Team Leader


• Realtor

I could go on forever, but you get the point. Every start up company or small business titles themselves with the same names...it means nothing anymore.

Try something different. Be original. If you want new business or some random person to show interest in you, then you must be creative and exciting. Unless your company offers a true one of a kind can's miss product that everyone must have, you might want to diversify in other ways.

You WANT people to ask you about what you do. It is SO much easier that way.

Curt Fletcher aka The Likeability Guy, is a Real Estate Professional, Business Development Strategist, Published Author of the book, "How To Sell More Homes and Increase Your Income," Sales Trainer, and Professional Speaker that focuses on improving your Likeability to increase your Opportunities for Success!

It's all about genuine excitement!

I'm a HUGE Sports fan and have been a Texas Rangers Baseball fan since I was just a little kid.


With the small exception of a couple years about a decade ago they have been just awful.


They have always been missing that little extra oomph that all successful teams have. For years I have watched team after team fail to win.


Over the years I have made the comment countless times that it just doesn't look like they are having any fun. They are TOO business like in their demeanor.


I am a BIG believer in the fact that you MUST LOVE what you do and have a TRUE PASSION for it to see any real success.


Well, this year's team has the "IT" factor. I don't know if they will make the playoffs or not, but this is the most fun I ever recall this team having. This summer I believe is the first time in their history that they figured "IT" out.


In an era where professional sports are more often referred to as a business than a game, you no longer see the zany personalities or joking around.


The 2008 Texas Rangers have captured the essence of Passion, Desire, and Teamwork. They understand they play a GAME for a living and get paid millions to do what they love.


Take a look at this video form earlier this year and you will see what I mean. This genuine exuberance took place during a rain delay at a game in New York.

Curt Fletcher is a Real Estate Expert, New Home Sales Professional, Published Author of the book, "How To Sell More Homes and Increase Your Income," Sales Trainer, and Professional Speaker that focuses on improving your Likeability to increase your Opportunities for Success!